Sunday, December 21, 2008

Good News!

Dear friends,

I have something to share ;)After been married for 2months+, I am now a mommy-to-be! I know, I know..baby came by surprise. hihi. Well, me and Helms have talked bout when to have a baby and we have decided that it would be 'whenever'. But we never expected that it would be that soon. hihi. So, when I had a very terrible dizziness for 2 days in a row (I couldn't even stand for a long time, I felt like I wanted to collapse) Helms decided to bring me to the clinic since my dizziness didn't go off even after 2 days of rest. To make the story even funnier, when I told my parents I'm not well and asked my mom to check my perut (maybe angin etc) my mom didn't wanna check. Instead my dad said "ke kakak dah berisi ni.." and I jumped to that statement. I just said "mane ada papa ni"..(sounded sooO confident) So when me and Helms were on the way down at the stairs, met my dad again..he was just laughing and pat Helms at the back and said "Alhamdullillah kakak dah ada tanda dah tu..". I was like ..in my heart..why is everyone soOO confident..I might be having some food poisoning or some other sickness that I don't know and my whole family on the othe hand is already thinking that I'm pregnant. I can't believe this! Well, I just ignored what they said and went straight to the car..When we went in the car, the temperature of the air cond was 22c, Helms asked me "eh, did u change the temperature?" "Yeah, it was hot in the afternoon tadi so I lower the temperature" Then, came another confident statement made by my hubby "Lain je u ni, I think you're pregnant la.." That was it. Now, he is also influenced by my family's genius idea! "you all ni so confident, I might be having food poisoning or something and u all are thinking I'm pregnant. Ok nanti kite check, ask the doctor". Well, I am aware that my P hasn't come yet for month of November but it was normal to me since I assume it could be due to stress at work (yeah,stress la sgt kan..hihi). While waiting for the doc, Helms sempat lagi jokingly told me "If you're pregnant, I'll pay for the clinic bill but if you sakit biase2 je, pay sendiri" I was like, "Yeah, yeah". So when we went to the clinic, the doctor checked my blood pressure etc, didn't find any sakit2 that she could relate it to my symptom- dizziness+giddiness in my stomach. Then only I told her, "doc,is it possible that I might be pregnant coz I haven't had my menses for last month". Had the urine test straightaway, and then there it was...double line at the stick! haha. So there goes my good news..everyone was happy especially Helms. He couldn't believe it at first when I told him, "serious?!" "Yela, takkan la I nak tipu you, doctor yg ckp". He called almost everyone that he knew to tell the news. Me, I was still shock at that time, still couldn't believe that I was gonna be a mommy soon. I was happy, excited, scared, nervous, didn't know what to expect. So many things were running in my head, it was a mix feeling. My dizziness was gone for a while..(only for that moment). While everyone was happy and excited bout the news (Helms called me during lunchtime ever since that just to ask me how's the baby, I kept telling him "Baby is doin fine" haha) a few days after that I was still thinking bout my pregnancy, is it true..so know what I did? I went to Guardian after work, bought a pregnancy test wanted to see it on my own. So I did the pregnancy test again, this time at home and there it was..AGAIN..double line at the stick!haha. I was relieved, I knew then that I am truly a pregger and have to start thinking bout baby already. It was funny tho, some people would check at home then go to the clinic to double confirm the result but for my situation, terbalik..was not satisfied with the clinic's result, check at home pulak after that!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Thank You

I would like to say a bunch of THANK U to dearest friends who came to help me, lovely friends who came to celebrate my wedding, farling friends who gave lots n lots of prezzies..I love it! I could name a few (as far as I could remember) , DVD Player frm Bobo n gang, Vacuum Cleaner frm Honeystar Zali Mami, Cupcake holder frm Naddy, Colourful Cushion cover frm Rinie Najmi, Pink Bed Sheet frm Semah, Choc Fountain frm Ratna Husni Anwar, Table lamp frm Faten n gang, Thomas Pink tie frm Aiman, ...and few pasang kain batik, a few crystal frames, a few Lovely Lace albums, a few Dinner plate set, a few vases and the list goes on..

Gosh, I had a wonderful time on the wedding day and me and my hubby thank everyone who came to the wedding, without YOU it will never be as wonderful as it was! It was truly My Big Day.

xoxo

Friday, November 7, 2008

Wedding Tale!

I have loads of stories to tell bout my wedding. After 2 weeks in a row of Dini&Helmy's reception, now I can really get some rest. Let me start with the malam berinai. The Henna girl came late due to some prob and she started putting the inai on my fingers at 11.30pm. I had to wait till 4am for it to dry off! I was so mengantok but couldnt sleep coz takut it will smudge the sofa so nak tak nak kene la berjaga till 4am..nasib baik the drawing turn out to be nice so I said to myself..takpela,at least the inai cantik..Then came the Akad Nikah day, I was thrilled, excited, nervous whatever feelings that you can name of. The groom's side came at 8.30 as planned, then I went down approximately around 8.45pm as I was told by some makciks down stairs asking me to come down. After all the opening speech by my husband's witty atuk, to my horror, the tok imam who was suppose to sah kan my nikah was not there! Can u actually believe that. I waited for the first 20 mins then my leg started to cramp, everyone started talking, butterfly-in-my stomach was gone, by then I knew that my akad nikah was spoilt. My moodiness kicked in. Thank God I have friends and family who told me to chill and relax. Then around 10.15 came the real moment. So many things were playing in my mind. Is this true. Is this really happening. Am I..finally...going to be His wife..after all these years..I felt it was like a split second, He said it once and it was all done. (Min bet with me that he's gonna say it twice!) Well, I think the part of waiting for 1+hours for the tok imam to come made him said the sentence smoothly without me hearing his voice trembling and what not. I was proud of him. Had always been. I thank my friends who came to my Akad Nikah and even waited for me. Saved me from emotional blunder. I am proud to say that I am OFFICIALLY Helms' Wifey and this blog is the journey of my Lurve Tale..